Love advice::~ How to handle arguements 101

Chyi asked me:: If they (guyz) are wrong, why should we be so good to them~?
I said :: Cuz they dunno that they're wrong till you tell them that your heart's bleeding and that you're sick and tired of being the one maintaining the relationship::~
then when they feel bad (or not, cuz then they'll argue back and hurt our hearts SOMORE, in that case call your pals and stop communicating with them cuz it'll only make things WORSE, talk another day when you guyz start missing each other again or if he apologizes 1st)
well, if they do noe they're wrong and hopefully beg for forgiveness, dont hold your grudge too long, men dont have much patience, you'll just end up arguing::~
if they brush the problem off ::~ if you're right, commence the silent treatment::~ (it's emotional blackmail, they want your attention too::~)::~ borrow your frends' shoulders to cry on::~
if you're wrong, brush it off too::~ hence, solving the deadlock (shelve the problem)::~
If he commences the lots of scolding and threats treatment or the silent treatment and compromising just wont do::~ shut down (dont absorb the scolding and threats, they're NOT TRUE) depend on yur frends and family::~ if he's a man and he loves you, he'll ask you to go back to him & bear the responsibilities of maintaining your relationship::~ but if he's a coward and definitely has no qualifications to take care of you or the relationship (cuz he doesn't noe that ALL GIRLS NEED LOVE, CARE, SECURITY and SUPPORT) then why ARE YOU STILL MOPPING AROUND 4 HIM~??????????????????????????